Divorces Based on Fault

November 30, 2009 in Uncategorized by admin

The types of fault most commonly recognized as grounds for divorce are adultery, mental or physical cruelty, desertion or abandonment (usually for at least one year), nonsupport, gross neglect, alcoholism or drug addiction, impotence, insanity, and conviction of a felony (a prison sentence of at least one to three years may be required). One important ground rule: To obtain a divorce based on fault, the innocent spouse must be the one who initiates the legal proceedings; a person cannot go out and commit adultery, then file for divorce on the ground that he or she has been unfaithful. In some states, a divorce is available if the parties have been separated under court order or written agreement for a specified length of time, ordinarily six months to two years, depending on the state.

Before no-fault divorces, adultery and extreme mental cruelty were the most common types of fault alleged in divorce actions. The adultery often was staged or committed with the other spouse’s approval. The “guilty” spouse usually would be caught in the act by the “innocent” spouse’s private investigator, who always had enough time to take several incriminating pictures for evidence.

Divorces based on mental cruelty frequently included testimony from friends, neighbors, and relatives, stating that they had heard one spouse verbally abuse or humiliate the other incessantly. The children might even be called to testify about general living conditions—the house was unsanitary, a parent was drunk every night—or about constant and heated arguments they overheard between their parents. Not infrequently, except for the children’s testimony, much of the testimony was exaggerated, even completely fabricated, to ensure that the divorce would be granted.

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Defenses to Divorce

November 11, 2009 in Divorce by admin

Suppose that you spouse sues you for divorce, but you don’t want one. Is there anything you can legally do to “defend,” or prevent, the divorce? Defenses to divorce actions aren’t nearly as important today as they were forty or more years ago, when divorce were harder to obtain. Defenses are only relevant in divorces based on fault. No-fault divorces are essentially un-defendable: If one spouse wants a divorce, there isn’t much the other can do to stop it.

In a fault divorce proceeding, if an innocent spouse forgives the adulterous spouse, the defense of “condonation” stops the divorce. Another defense is the assertion that the other spouse provoked the conduct complained of. The provocation must be sufficient to justify the wrongful act, however. For instance, a husband cannot justify an adulterous relationship because his wife refused to have intercourse with him one night.

At one time, a frequent defense was recrimination: The spouse who filed for the divorce was accused of being equally guilty of immoral or other wrongful conduct. If the wife asked for a divorce on the ground that, say, her husband committed adultery, the husband could defend the divorce on the basis that the wife herself had also committed adultery. Even if the husband agreed to get a divorce, some court would not give the couple a divorce, since they were equally culpable. Holy wedlock became unholy deadlock. This made absolutely no sense, as the two people obviously no longer wanted to be married, and the marriage was beyond salvage. Today most court simply would grant the divorce, end the couple’s suffering, and let them get on with their separate lives.

When divorces were permitted only because of one spouse’s fault, a couple who could no longer live together occasionally would agree that one of them should commit adultery so they could get the divorce. Unfortunately, if the judge found out about it, he or she would deny the divorce because of the parties’ collusion.

Sacramento divorce attorney helps people with all aspects of divorce law. For more information call Sacramento divorce lawyer at (916) 266-0188 for immediate consultation.

The Law Office of Robert N. Kitay
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Sacramento, CA 95814
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Credit and Divorce

October 19, 2009 in Divorce by admin

Mary and Bill recently divorced. Their divorce decree stated that Bill would pay the balances on their three joint credit card accounts. Months later, after Bill neglected to pay off these accounts, all three creditors contacted Mary for payment. She referred them to the divorce decree, insisting that she was not responsible for the accounts. The creditors correctly stated that they were not parties to the decree and that Mary was still legally responsible for paying off the couple’s joint accounts. Mary later found out that the late payments appeared on her credit report.

If you’ve recently been through a divorce – or are contemplating one – you may want to look closely at issues involving credit. Understanding the different kinds of credit accounts opened during a marriage may help illuminate the potential benefits – and pitfalls – of each. Contact Sacramento divorce attorney Robert N. Kitay for free consultation about your legal matter.

There are two types of credit accounts: individual and joint. You can permit authorized persons to use the account with either. When you apply for credit – whether a charge card or a mortgage loan – you’ll be asked to select one type.

Individual or Joint Account

Individual Account: Your income, assets, and credit history are considered by the creditor. Whether you are married or single, you alone are responsible for paying off the debt. The account will appear on your credit report, and may appear on the credit report of any “authorized” user. However, if you live in a community property state  (Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, or Wisconsin), you and your spouse may be responsible for debts incurred during the marriage, and the individual debts of one spouse may appear on the credit report of the other.

Advantages/Disadvantages: If you’re not employed outside the home, work part-time, or have a low-paying job, it may be difficult to demonstrate a strong financial picture without your spouse’s income. But if you open an account in your name and are responsible, no one can negatively affect your credit record.

Joint Account: Your income, financial assets, and credit history – and your spouse’s – are considerations for a joint account. No matter who handles the household bills, you and your spouse are responsible for seeing that debts are paid. A creditor who reports the credit history of a joint account to credit bureaus must report it in both names (if the account was opened after June 1, 1977).

Advantages/Disadvantages: An application combining the financial resources of two people may present a stronger case to a creditor who is granting a loan or credit card. But because two people applied together for the credit, each is responsible for the debt. This is true even if a divorce decree assigns separate debt obligations to each spouse. Former spouses who run up bills and don’t pay them can hurt their ex-partner’s credit histories on jointly-held accounts.

Account “Users”

If you open an individual account, you may authorize another person to use it. If you name your spouse as the authorized user, a creditor who reports the credit history to a credit bureau must report it in your spouse’s name as well as in your’s (if the account was opened after June 1, 1977). A creditor also may report the credit history in the name of any other authorized user.

Advantages/Disadvantages: User accounts often are opened for convenience. They benefit people who might not qualify for credit on their own, such as students or homemakers. While these people may use the account, you – not they – are contractually liable for paying the debt.

If You Divorce

If you’re considering divorce or separation, pay special attention to the status of your credit accounts. If you maintain joint accounts during this time, it’s important to make regular payments so your credit record won’t suffer. As long as there’s an outstanding balance on a joint account, you and your spouse are responsible for it.

If you divorce, you may want to close joint accounts or accounts in which your former spouse was an authorized user. Or ask the creditor to convert these accounts to individual accounts.

By law, a creditor cannot close a joint account because of a change in marital status, but can do so at the request of either spouse. A creditor, however, does not have to change joint accounts to individual accounts. The creditor can require you to reapply for credit on an individual basis and then, based on your new application, extend or deny you credit. In the case of a mortgage or home equity loan, a lender is likely to require refinancing to remove a spouse from the obligation.

For an in debt clarification of your divorce matter contact Sacramento divorce lawyer Robert N. Kitay for free consultation.

Divorce Stats

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Marriage and Divorce

(Data are for the U.S.)

  • Number of marriages: 2,162,000
  • Marriage rate: 7.1 per 1,000 total population
  • Divorce rate: 3.5 per 1,000 population (44 reporting States and D.C.)

According to: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/divorce.htm

How do I stop a divorce case after it has already been filed?

How do I stop a divorce case after it has already been filed?

October 8, 2009 in Featured, Practice Areas by admin

If you are the one who filed for divorce, you can file a Request for Dismissal (Form CIV-110) to dismiss your case. But, if you do this and you later decide you want to continue with the divorce, you will have to start all over and pay the filing fee again.

If you are not the one who started the divorce case, you cannot stop it on your own. You need the other side to file a Request for Dismissal (Form CIV-110) to dismiss your case.

If you and your spouse or domestic partner filed a Joint Summary Dissolution, either one of you can stop the case by filing a Notice of Revocation of Petition for Summary Dissolution (Form FL-830)

For more information or to schedule an appointment with an experienced Sacramento divorce lawyer call Robert N. Kitay today: (916) 266-0188. Initial 45 minute consultation is FREE.

Introduction to Divorce, Legal Separation & Annulment

Introduction to Divorce, Legal Separation & Annulment

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What’s the difference between a divorce, a legal separation, and an annulment?

A divorce (also called “dissolution of marriage” or “dissolution of domestic partnership”) ends your marriage or domestic partnership. After you get divorced, you will be single, and you can marry or become a domestic partner again.

 If you get divorced, you can ask the judge for orders like child support, spousal support, partner support, custody and visitation, domestic violence restraining orders, division of property, and other orders. For married persons to get a divorce, you MUST meet California’s residency requirement.

A legal separation does not end a marriage or domestic partnership. You can’t marry or enter into a partnership with someone else if you are legally separated (and not divorced).

A legal separation is for couples that do not want to get divorced but want to live apart and decide on money, property, and parenting issues. Couples sometimes prefer separation for religious reasons.

You do not need to meet California’s residency requirement to file for a legal separation. If you file for a legal separation, you may later be able to file an amended petition to ask the court for a divorce-after you meet the residency requirements.

In a legal separation case, you can ask the judge for orders like child support, spousal support, partner support, custody and visitation, domestic violence restraining orders, or any other orders you can get with a divorce case.

An annulment (or “nullity of marriage” or “nullity of domestic partnership”) is when a court says your marriage or domestic partnership is NOT legally valid. A marriage or domestic partnership that is incestuous or bigamous is never valid. Other marriages and partnerships can be declared “void” because:

  • of force, fraud, or physical or mental incapacity;
  • one of the spouses or partners was too young to legally marry or enter into a domestic partnership; or
  • one of the spouses or partners was already married or in a registered domestic partnership.

Annulments are very rare. If you ask to have your marriage or domestic partnership annulled, you will have to go to hearing with a judge.

For more information or to schedule an appointment with an experienced Sacramento divorce attorney call Robert N. Kitay today: (916) 266-0188. Initial 45 minute consultation is FREE

About Sacramento Divorce Attorney / Robert N. Kitay

About Sacramento Divorce Attorney / Robert N. Kitay

September 22, 2009 in About the Firm, Featured by admin

ROBERT N. KITAY
Law Office of Robert N. Kitay
Bar Number(s): 229966 (Cal.) and 7406 (Nev.)

Education:

  • University of the Pacific, McGeorge School of Law – Juris Doctor 1999; Traynor Honor Society; Dean’s List Scholarship; Alumni Foundations Scholarship; Dean’s List 3 times; top 25 % of class.
  • University of San Diego (1993); post-graduate paralegal studies; American Bar Association Certified; graduation with high honors.
  • University of California; Davis (1993); B.A. (major Political Science; minor Comparative Literature).

 

Bar Association and Professional Organizational Memberships:kitay

  • State Bar of California (SBN 229966);
  • State Bar of Nevada (SBN 7406);
  • United States District Court, Eastern District of California;
  • United Stated District Court, Northern District of California;
  • United States District Court, District Court of Northern Nevada;
  • Sacramento County Bar Association; Yolo County Bar Association;
  • Trial Lawyers of America;
  • California Consumer Attorneys Association

Court admissions:

  • All State Courts in California;
  • All State Courts in Nevada;
  • U.S. District Courts located in San Francisco, Sacramento, Fresno, and Reno.

 

Firm Emphasis and Work Experience

The primary focus of this firm is to help people work through difficult times by providing honest and accurate legal advice, and zealous and effective advocacy. Sacramento family law attorney Robert N. Kitay’s primary areas of practice is Family Law (divorce, custody, support, guardianships, etc.). I am open to new areas of practice if the right case presents itself. If you inquire about an area of practice that I cannot help you with, I will refer you to a professional that I know can help you.

I started out in the legal business as a paralegal in 1993, and worked in that capacity until 1997. As a paralegal, I worked mainly in complex asbestos litigation and personal injury defense (product liability, motor vehicle accidents, construction site accidents).

Starting in late 1997 I worked as a law clerk for the California State Public Defender assisting in the presentation of death penalty appeals.

Starting in late 1998 I worked as a law clerk for the Sacramento County Public Defender, Major Crimes Division. I assisted the trial attorneys with the preparation and completion trials dealing with serious crimes (murder, bank robbery, etc.).

After graduating from McGeorge School of Law in 1999, I worked for the Nevada Supreme Court as a Criminal Staff Attorney for about a year. In this capacity, I counseled the Supreme Court Justices and wrote opinions and orders for them that primarily dealt with post-conviction appeals from serious felony convictions.

After leaving the Nevada Supreme Court in 2000, I went to work for a small private firm in the San Francisco/Bay Area. I handled all types of cases in the areas of criminal defense and personal injury (plaintiff’s work).

In 2004 I began working for about a year with a Sacramento firm as an associate insurance defense attorney dealing with elder abuse cases, product liability, and personal injury.

In 2005 I went to work for another small Sacramento firm and worked mostly as a Sacramento family law attorney.

After leaving this employment, I opened my own firm.

As you can see from my experience, I have a varied background and have gained valuable experience in a wide variety of practice areas. The common thread among all this experience is litigation and trial work. Over the course of time, I have gained the skills and experience necessary to be an extremely effective litigation attorney. I am good at it, and it brings me a deep sense of satisfaction when I win for my client, which is most of the time.

I also have an extensive background in providing pro bono legal services. I have worked with such organizations as Voluntary Legal Services of Northern California and the Tri-Valley Haven (Bay Area service similar to WEAVE). For the last 3 years I have worked as an Pro Bono attorney with the Family Court in Sacramento County by helping, at the request of our Judges, self-represented litigants in custody and support cases.

Experienced Sacramento family law attorney Robert N. Kitay specializes in family law issues including divorce. If you are in need of expert legal counsel, contact a divorce lawyer in Sacramento at the Law Office of Robert N. Kitay for your FREE 45 minute consultation.

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Practice Areas

Practice Areas

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The law office of Robert N. Kitay of Sacramento, California, concentrates its practice on Sacramento Family Law and Sacramento Divorce matters, including: Divorce, Legal Separation, Custody and Visitation, Child Support (Setting, Modification, and Collection), Spousal Support (Setting, Modification and Collection), Property/Debt Division, Retirement/Pension Plan Division, Guardianships & Adoptions, and Judgment Enforcement. We proudly serve clients in Sacramento County, Placer County and Yolo County.

If you are ready to schedule a confidential consultation regarding your Sacramento Family Law or Sacramento Divorce matters in Northern California, give us a call today or click here to fill out our online contact form.

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Contact Sacramento Divorce Attorney / Robert N. Kitay

Contact Sacramento Divorce Attorney / Robert N. Kitay

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The office of a Sacramento  divorce attorney Robert N. Kitay is conveniently located in downtown Sacramento. Family Law Attorney in Sacramento Robert N. Kitay is experienced in all matters of family law. Contact us for your FREE 45 minute consultation.

    Sacramento Office
    1006 “4th” Street, Suite 225
    Sacramento, CA 95814
    Tel: (916) 266-0188
    Fax: (916) 266-0198